Relationship direction Spread 12.22.17

The relationship direction tarot spread

1- the querent (Q)

queen of swords (R)

currently thinking more with heart than head, very emotionally involved in a particular situation which is distorting your perception of reality, try to be objective. relationships clouding your usually clear vision, be more confident and assertive and refocus your goals and direction (you are hesitating to do this because you don’t want to disturb the positive balance and harmony of your relationships with others. (lacking compassion, cold, bitter, resentful, and mean.

2- their partner

3 of cups

representative of friendships and collegiate, harmonious relationships. turning to female friends from which you receive love, support, and compassion that you need right now. Could be a motherly connection, but a very social period, taking a moment to indulge and take a break after a period of high stress. represents and end or conclusion to any problems you have been experiencing. A compromise is on the way. card of finding a new love. You can look forward to at least one pleasant reunion with someone or something that you have been apart from for some time.

3-intentions/desires (Q)

The world

in relationships it's reached a state where it's either take this to the next level of commitment or break up... it's gone as far as it's going to go in it's present state and this person wants it all and more. If one is looking all romantic at the World for a relationship, then it could be seen as everything they have ever done or been or experienced has brought them to this place, sort of like their whole lives happened to bring them together at last... and now it's time to become something more.

4- intentions/desires (P)

7 of pentacles (R)

In a relationship reading, the reversed Seven of Pentacles indicates that you have been working very hard on laying the foundations for your relationship but now, for some reason, you are concerned that you are going to lose all of that. You may also be feeling frustrated that the relationship is not progressing or growing as quickly as you had hoped, particularly given that you have put in so much time and energy. Sometimes you can pour your heart and soul into something but it does not always mean that there will be results. You may come to the realization that it just is not worth your time and no matter how much you try, the relationship is going to continue to hit roadblocks.

5- Near future (Q)

the tower (R)

Delaying the necessary “destruction,” and you need to go through this difficult time in order to learn an important lesson. Although it is shocking and hard to deal with, it is an important part of your life journey. You are afraid of the repercussions, but if you want to achieve the scale of change that you aspire to, then you need to take some risk. this reversal can lessen the change that is about to enter your life. You may know that something major is about to happen, and you can plan ahead to avoid the impending destruction. You may be able to narrowly avoid disaster. When this card is in the future position, there are no surprises to the coming chaos. You can already see the writing on the wall and the decimation of some structure in your world takes place quickly and totally. When this card appears in this position, the future is days, perhaps hours away. It is not the future of next month that the reading present

6- Near Future (P)

9 of cups

As a Cups card, the Nine usually refers to an emotionally fulfilling situation, such as the strengthening of a romantic bond, the solidification of a friendship or the consummation of a sexual relationship. It shows that joy and happiness are within your grasp. In fact, you probably already have them. Hearts desire will be granted in the very near future.

7- Future underlying dynamics

6 of cups

nostalgia, naive happiness, generosity. You want to return to the happy memories of the past. These are usually memories that are a thing of the past and have since vanished. don’t forget to live in the present. look back at what you have endured together to assure yourself that whatever trials lie ahead, you can meet them and will overcome them as you have overcome others. don’t focus on the negatives. the fallen cups are now upright. there is a need to express childlike joy. it radiates joy and reunion. you are more open to sharing what you have and being well intentioned.In the future position, the Six of Cups reveals that you are headed to a place of blissful peace and play. This could signal an upcoming vacation or a relationship providing for you to have a more relaxed and carefree life. Enjoy the satisfaction that your future will make you feel like a kid again.

8-outcome/future

5 of pentacles

You may have your eye on someone who you feel is not treating you the way they should. It may be that you need to stop fantasizing about this person entirely. This card can be very much a card of feeling left out in the cold. It's important to remember that there is never only one person that we can be with and have a soul-level, happy, meaningful relationship. When love is right, you don't have to do back flips to make it work. Broaden your horizons and try hard to think positively. You are not an unlovable troll. This is a warning from the Tarot deck not to lose faith. The future will challenge you if the Five of Pentacles is placed in your future position. But you can make solid choices now to be on the other side of that stained glass window. The Five of Pentacles reminds us that life is a banquet and most poor fools are starving. Embrace the warm, joyous light that is on the other side of the window in the Five of Pentacles. Knowing that times may be tough is no reason to give up, in fact, you can actually work to create the joyous light depicted in the card's stained glass window. This card lets you know that it is time to live your life instead of just trudging through it. greed will lead to loss, anxiety will lead to error, possessiveness will lead to solitude. The Five of Pentacles can also point to a time of being alone, feeling abandoned, ignored and unwanted.

can i still be friends with her? THE SUN

-this card is an incredibly positive yes, “things are going to get better”

can i be friends with her while she is with her current partner? The empress (R)

-nah dude really bad idea, indicates a loss of personal power and a neglect of caring for yourself, confusion about the direction of relationship, take time for yourself

when will I know that I can be friends with her again? 4 of cups

-either when their relationship ends or i find a positive one. it indicates a positive period of self reflection and renewal, don’t sulk. The Four of Cups often represents hurts, upsets and being totally disillusioned by those around you but especially by a relationship you thought meant something very special.   The figure looks upset and almost in a state of disbelief. He appeared to have found his soul-mate in the Two and was quick to want to make a commitment in the Three, but as with all Cups, he may have let his heart run away with him too soon and became blind to any unsettling undercurrents at play. You really need to spend some time meditating on this as you may need to make some changes in your life so that you can feel emotionally stable once more. However, if you are single then The Four of Cups could be alerting you to the potential for romance that you are unaware of.  You may not have your eyes open or are not very good at reading the signs but there is a really good chance that someone is interested in you and very aware of your presence.  You may know who it is but never thought that you stood any chance or only see them as a friend. They however, may be looking for more. You may be too preoccupied hankering after an old relationship or for someone who has little interest in you. The potential of what is being offered could bring great happiness to you so be on the look out for likely candidates.